Saturday I am going to a girls only pot-luck of former JW ladies that all use to attend the local KH . We have all reconnected on facebook and are trying to get together once a month .
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Tell Us What's Happening on Mother's Day
by OnTheWayOut inso many of us are free, so many of us are not.. share whatever "mother's day" activity you will be involved in this year.
moms and those with non or ex-jw moms, whazzup?.
tell us how that makes you feel, your involvement or lack of involvement in mother's day..
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Tell Us What's Happening on Mother's Day
by OnTheWayOut inso many of us are free, so many of us are not.. share whatever "mother's day" activity you will be involved in this year.
moms and those with non or ex-jw moms, whazzup?.
tell us how that makes you feel, your involvement or lack of involvement in mother's day..
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troubled mind
I have recently been introduced to a new group of friends . One woman in the group puts on a Mother's Day BBQ every year for all her friends ! This will be our first year , and it sounds like a blast .
I am amazed how warmly my husband and I hve been integrated into already established groups of friends .
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What's the most dumbest/petty thing you've heard of someone being "stumbled" over?
by Reality79 in- some loser once took offense that i hugged a sister goodbye at a leaving do and ran back to the elders like a little child telling on me.
i was 15, this sister was in her 40s at the time.. - this elder said someone told him they saw me with a copy of the sun newspaper.
yes, this paper is known for its 'page 3' topless girls but far from pornagraphic and i wasn't even thinking along those lines.. - one brother who had a good job was 'counselled' because he was actually able to buy himself nice things including a new car (shock, horror!!
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I live in the mid -west and our winters get alot of snow and freezing temps in the winter . For service I wore a long coat and high boots ,so under neath I sometimes wore pants out in service instead of a dress . How would anyone know ? But a sister complained .... The Brother used the reasoning "what if you go in a householder's house and took off your coat " ( oh I don't know ??? pants would cause them to have a heart attack ? ) Good grief !!!!
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Finally getting my life in order.
by JonathanH ini've been out for a few years now, officially ousted and shunned for probably a year and a half, maybe even closing in on two years, the exact date eludes me.
and given that i was still married to a witness, and one that i cared deeply about, i wasn't overly concerned with what i wanted, so much as how to make things better for her.
in the intervening time i think i have done that, and quite well.
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troubled mind
Jonathan that is awesome ! It is so encouraging to hear of someone that puts the fear behind them and pushes forward with aplan . So very happy for you . My daughter in law just made the leap into college (her life long dream ) and she is loving it ! I am sure you will too .
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my lesbian jw relative...sad but true 4-some...and penance
by oompa inyeah i thought the 4-some thing would hook some of you guys in lol!.
she is about 24 and has three other gay jw roommates and has for a few years.
virtually everyone knows they are gay.
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troubled mind
OOmpa , I use to tell my husband all the time that I thought many of our pioneers were Pioneering as penance to ease guilty consciences . Maybe not for being lesbian ,but other 'sins' especially of the past .
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How Courteous A Driver Are You?
by prophecor ini try to quell my emotions when stuck behind slow drivers.
never knowing that they may be elderly or infirmed people.
i also however try to let others in when there's a road crew ahead and everyone has to pull to one side to get by.
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troubled mind
practically perfect in every way .........(i also lie a bit )
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How many here have been Df'd for celebrating holidays ?
by troubled mind ini was talking to an old friend last night that told me she was recently df'd for celebrating holidays .
she refused their efforts to meet with them so they just made the decision on their own !
she has been inactive almost a year and has refused to meet or talk at the door with any elder this whole time .
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troubled mind
watersprout your mom sounds like a force not to be reckoned with
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How many here have been Df'd for celebrating holidays ?
by troubled mind ini was talking to an old friend last night that told me she was recently df'd for celebrating holidays .
she refused their efforts to meet with them so they just made the decision on their own !
she has been inactive almost a year and has refused to meet or talk at the door with any elder this whole time .
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troubled mind
I was talking to an old friend last night that told me she was recently Df'd for celebrating holidays . She refused their efforts to meet with them so they just made the decision on their own !
She has been inactive almost a year and has refused to meet or talk at the door with any Elder this whole time . I don't know what evidence they had against her ,but it just seems so petty to me for them to do this .
The holiday issue was what they started after me with too. I guess when they have nothing more to hang on you ......
My friend has children and grandchildren that are not Witnesses and she naturally wants to share in their special occasions . How stupid for a religion to say that is wrong ,and an offense so horrible you need to be ostrisized from the rest of your JW family by dfing...... jerks
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Spent last few days in Hospital with our 23 yr old son
by troubled mind insevere abdominal pain turned out to be pancreatitis !
very scary .... his levels of enzymes should have been 180 ,but were 4,500 .
all the tests xrays , ulta sound and mri showed no gallstones or blockages just one mother of an inflamned pancreas .
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troubled mind
Thank you Syl .....No this is my youngest son ....(crux is the one that posts here occasionaly he is my middle son )